Since I know you all loved that little embarrassment Here’s another one. Funny how that kind f real life stories catches the eye more than others. Of course, the ones with sadness or turmoil are the best, right? Anyway, when we last saw the young 12 yr old monte, he was modeling underwear in front of 2 girls his age…… now we’ll go ahead a little more and get to another embarrassing moment, ready? As you know I grew up in the north and we had a pond on our property. Every year my Dad would test it in the winter to see if it was frozen enough to skate and play on. When it was at that point, I would go and shovel the snow off to include a little entrance way onto the frozen pond. One year when I was in high school, 2nd year, a good friend of mine who was about 2 years older was dating someone that had a a sister 1 year younger than I. I was 15 at the time and a little on the shy side when it came to girls. Mainly cuz I was always put down and laughed at for some reason. I was not popular at all due to my mom always saying no to stuff. Yeah word got around and in no time I became my own group.
What I mean by that is the Nerds labeled me as Jock because of my size and strength, the Jocks labeled me as a Tough Guy and the Tough Guys labeled me as a Nerd …. And the Nerds labeled me as …. You cee how it went, thus I was my own group. I really didn’t fit in anywhere. My buddy knew this and tried to help by setting me up with his girlfriend’s sister. She was really good looking so I should have seen it coming. It was winter, and I had the pond all nicely cleared off, a little area for small bond fire to keep warm and some really huge tree logs to use as benches. Everything was set, all I need was for this double date to start. I could hardly wait and looking back I don’t see why I was so excited given my history with girls. As he drove up the driveway I came out to great them. I’ll leave all the names out so now on will be upset or anything should they read this.
As my date got out of the car I was introduced, and she didn’t really look at me much. Hmm, clue number 1 that she was probably TOLD to do this. I was on my best behavior and didn’t want to scare her off by being like the typical high school guy that just wants one thing …. make out ….. ! We out on our skates and went on the ice. She was a little unstable, so I offered to help her by letting her hold on to me. I could skate pretty good, so I thought it might, just might impress her. Well, clue number 2, she flat said no real quick and kept a close eye on where sister was. I backed off, I didn’t push it. I skated around a little, but it was kind of boring. It was not what I had imagined at all for this date. I knew I was no Chippendale dancer but never thought of myself as bad looking. Maybe I should have and saved myself a lot of heart ache. I offered Hot Chocolate and sit by the fire to warm up and talk. She asked her sister if that’s what SHE wanted to do and then we sat, rather quietly as you can imagine. If I sat close, she moved over, clue number 3.
Here’s the kicker and what all the clues were adding up to. My buddy and his girl decided to help me out a little so I can get to know my date better without her sister right here. The plan was to say they were going to go the store real quick for something, leaving my date behind sort of hoping it would make her talk to me and perhaps be more comfortable. OK, ready??? This little lady, when the car drove off, took off running down the long ass driveway, waving her arms and yelling for them to stop, wait, you can’t leave me here! Talk about a knock out blow. She wouldn’t talk to me the entire time my friend and her sister were gone. I wasn’t even allowed to get near her. I was told by her that I better just leave her alone. I was like, What did I do? The 2 came back in like 15 minutes and my date started to yell at her sister saying that was not funny and why in the hell did they leave her like that and…. Her sister interrupted quickly and chewed her out big time say how wrong she was for running like that and making Monte feel bad. It was not the mature thing to do at all. My buddy apologized for how the night went but him it’s OK, it’s not his fault. I never told my parents what really happened that night, I just told them it was OK and left it at that. When I reflect on things like this I can’t help but wonder, “What would they think of me now!?” If anyone wants more details on this little story just ask.
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